Imibonano mpuzabitsina n’ukuryoherwa: Icyo ubushakashatsi bwerekana ku itandukaniro riri hagati y’abagabo n’abagore

 

Imibonano mpuzabitsina ni ingingo ikunze kwirindwa mu biganiro rusange, nyamara igira uruhare rukomeye mu buzima bw’abantu, haba ku mubiri no ku mutwe. Abenshi bayikora bagamije ibyishimo, abandi bakayifata nk’igice cy’ingenzi cy’imibanire cyangwa kubyara. Ariko se, ubushakashatsi buvuga iki ku buryo abantu baryoherwa muri iki gikorwa?

Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe n’inzego zirimo kaminuza ya Chapman na Kinsey Institute muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika bugaragaza ko hari itandukaniro rigaragara hagati y’abagabo n’abagore mu kugera ku byishimo bya nyuma (orgasm).

Itandukaniro riri he?

Ku ruhande rw’abagabo, kuryoherwa kenshi kugerwaho mu buryo bwihuse. Akenshi, ibikorwa by’ibanze nk’ukwinjiza igitsina birahagije kugira ngo bagere ku byishimo byabo bya nyuma.

Ku bagore ho si ko bimeze.

Abagore benshi bakeneye igihe n’uburyo bwo kubategura (foreplay), harimo gukorakora ku bice by’umubiri by’ingenzi nka rugongo, kugira ngo umubiri witegure neza. Ibi bituma umubiri uvubura imisemburo ifasha mu kuryoherwa no kugabanya ububabare.

Imibare ivuga iki?

Ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko:

• Abagabo bagera ku byishimo bya nyuma ku kigero cya 95%
• Abagore ho bagera kuri 65%

Ibi bigaragaza icyuho kiri hagati y’impande zombi.

Ikindi gishimishije ni uko abagore baryamana bahuje ibitsina bagira ibyishimo byinshi kurusha abaryamana n’abagabo. Impamvu nyamukuru ni uko bumva neza umubiri wabo, bityo bagashyira imbaraga ku bice by’ingenzi bitanga ibyishimo.

Kuki ibi ari ingenzi?

Ibi si imibare gusa ahubwo ni isomo ku mibanire y’abantu.

Kuryoherwa mu mibonano mpuzabitsina si igikorwa cy’umubiri gusa, ahubwo ni ihuriro ry’umubiri n’umutima:

• Ku bagabo, akenshi bishingira ku byo babona n’ibyo bakora
• Ku bagore, bishingira cyane ku mutuzo wo mu mutwe, kwizerana no kumva bakunzwe

Ibi bisobanura ko ibiganiro, kumva mugenzi wawe, no gufata umwanya ari ingenzi cyane.

Icyo bivuze ku mibereho yacu

Mu Rwanda no muri Afurika, iyi ngingo igikunze gufatwa nk’ikirazira. Ariko kudaganira kuri yo bishobora guteza ibibazo mu mibanire, harimo kutanyurwa, amakimbirane cyangwa no gutandukana.

Gufunguka ku biganiro bijyanye n’iyi ngingo bishobora:

• Guteza imbere ubuzima bwiza bw’imibanire
• Kugabanya ibibazo byo kutanyurwa
• Kongera kumvikana hagati y’abashakanye

Mu magambo make, kuryoherwa si impano—ni igikorwa gishobora kunozwa binyuze mu kumenya no kumvikana.

Ese wowe ubona ari iki cyafasha abantu kuganira ku mibonano mpuzabitsina mu buryo bwubaka aho kuyifata nk’ikirazira?

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